“What if a guy doesn’t text you for a week?”

What if a guy doesn’t text you for a week? First off, I just want to say I’m sorry you’re feeling this right now and you’re here reading this post. I promise to try and make you feel better and help you out by giving some advices. I hope I make you feel a little bit better!

You’ve been hanging out, texting, chatting or communicating for a few days now and it’s been getting good but he suddenly stops replying, he stops texting you back and stops communicating with you. A few days have passed by and he still hasn’t sent you a single text message and you’re getting more worried, anxious and get you overthinking. 

What if a guy doesn’t text you for a week?

Calm down. Take time to breathe and clear your mind. Do not let yourself be clouded with emotions and stop using your heart when you’re doing something because you might end up regretting doing them.

Here are a few advices that can help you out:

Keep it cool, girl! Focus on you. 

Be as light as a feather and do not let this problem weigh you down! Take control of your emotions. Whatever you do, try to control yourself and do not send him a text, a message or any way of communicating. Hold onto your seat. Distract yourself as much as you can. It’s a good time to do your hobbies or your passion and direct that concentration, focus, and energy to what you are passionate about instead of just listening to music and wondering when he will text again. Stop. Give time for yourself, focus on you, don't focus and question yourself too much with what if a guy doesn’t text you for a week?

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Convince yourself that he’s not worth all of this.

Do you see yourself now? Constantly worrying about the idea of him texting, worrying about if he’s okay or whatever that might be, if he cares, he’ll text. That’s it. 

Try convincing yourself that he’s not worth all of this trouble. Now you see yourself sleeping late, crying yourself to sleep, drinking alcohol and getting all hangover the next day or getting anxious, you do not deserve to feel that way and you have to stop it. You are strong and you can do this. He is not worth feeling all these negative emotions now. Stop and take time to actually talk to yourself, the heart listens to the mind too. Convince yourself that he is not worth feeling so sad and anxious about. You are worth more than what you are feeling. So, do you still think about what if a guy doesn’t text you for a week?

Say no to drunk texting!

Having fun with your girlfriends, have some drinks, enjoy! Allow yourself to have fun and help yourself in doing things or activities that will take your mind off him! It’s okay to get drunk, dance the night away or go chilling with your friends, talk and put your hearts out, do whatever you want just don’t, please, don’t drunk text! Avoid it at all costs! Do not make a fool of yourself.

Do not make him think you’re desperate or he’s high in advantage, keep it cool. Give your phone to a friend if you don’t trust yourself, ask them to help you out. It’s okay to look weak in front of people who already know you because they’ll be ready to help you out but it’s not okay to look like a weak or worse, a fool in his eyes because you are obsessed with what if a guy doesn’t text you for a week?

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Let him know what he lost, do something fun.

Use social media as an advantage. Go on, show him what he has lost! Take a video or a photo of a cool activity for you to post online and share with friends, do it for yourself and as a bonus, it will actually show him what he is missing. Do something fun, go camping or to the beach, explore and go hiking, go dancing or out with friends or you can even travel with friends or alone, just go out and do something fun! Let him know you are okay without him and losing him does not mean the end of the world. 

Talk to other guys? 

There are people who do this and some people avoid talking to other guys because it adds another party involve in your broken heart. You might be talking to the other guy and have fun, get your mind off him but when you’ve healed and actually feel better, you might find out that you weren’t really interested in him in the first place and you just liked the idea that another guy texts you back or gives you more attention than he ever did. Maybe it’s best to avoid breaking other people’s hearts too because it might create a ripple and a never-ending cycle of people being rebounded. 

But if you are already talking to other guys, just please be careful of your actions and remind yourself that the other guys have feelings too. Don't let yourself be led with a common question in your head – what if a guy doesn’t text you for a week?

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Give him the cold shoulder – ignore!

One day, you suddenly find your phone ring and it’s him. Stop yourself from responding and falling to his trap again! No. Do not do that to yourself because you have already made some progress and falling to his trap might get you back to square one. Now you wouldn’t want that to happen right?

 Know your worth.

The sad truth is that he lost his interest and is moving on, you should too. Do not chase a person, you should know your worth and create limits on the things you do. Learn when to stop and focus on yourself. Do not let toxic relationships take a toll on you. You are worth so much more and do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Remove any negative thoughts you think about, and first should be – what if a guy doesn’t text you for a week? – and never consider yourself as a problem. 

Think of it as something you lost because you didn’t really have a connection, didn’t have the same interest, same beliefs and were just too different from each other. Remember, you are not the problem and you never were. He was just not the one.

Also, you should recognize the most dangerous problem of today – toxic relationships. Read more about it here.

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