Some people treat attraction like a spark that happens to them, while others know how to create that spark on purpose. If you recognize yourself in the second group, you may already understand the appeal of the sex kitten persona-bold,…
Dating can feel uncertain even when both people have good intentions. Add mind games , and the entire experience becomes exhausting-less about connection and more about control. When someone uses mixed signals, selective attention, and carefully timed affection, you may…
Being close to a depressed boyfriend can feel confusing, heavy, and unpredictable – especially if you have never lived through depression yourself. You may recognize the person you love, yet struggle to connect with him in the same easy way…
You cannot manufacture someone’s feelings on command, but you can set the stage for attraction by showing up as your most confident, engaging self. If you are drawn to a guy who seems oblivious-or if you suspect you have been…
At the beginning, it is easy to believe you have found someone exceptional. The attention feels steady, the conversations are effortless, and being together seems like the most natural thing in the world. Over time, though, a shift can appear-subtle…
When a relationship feels shaky, it is tempting to look for a single move that will lock everything into place. Some people convince themselves that pregnancy can function like a guarantee-an unspoken contract that forces commitment. The reality is harsher:…
Mixed signals can make you second-guess everything-what he meant, what you said, and whether you should lean in or let it go. One moment he seems warm, the next he feels distant, and you’re left trying to decide if you’re…
When you like someone, uncertainty can feel louder than anything he says. One day he is warm and present; the next, he is distant or vague, and you are left trying to interpret what it all means. The fastest way…
The mind can be surprisingly creative when it comes to arousal – and sometimes it produces a fantasy that feels out of sync with how you describe yourself in everyday life. If you identify as straight yet occasionally picture intimacy…
Being capable and self-directed is a strength, but it can create a quiet imbalance if your partner starts wondering where he fits. In many relationships, a man doesn’t want constant reassurance or control-he wants to feel needed in a way…